Here’s a mix of classic, contemporary, and practical relationship books that are great for couples to read together or individually: Classic Must-Reads Why it's great: Helps couples understand how they each give and receive love—an absolute game changer for communication and connection. Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus by John Gray
Why it's great: Old-school but still useful for understanding fundamental communication and emotional differences. Hold Me Tight by Dr. Sue Johnson Why it's great: Based on Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), this book strengthens emotional bonds and helps you navigate conflict and connection.
Science-Based & Insightful
Attached by Amir Levine & Rachel Heller
Why it's great: Dives into attachment theory and how our styles (anxious, avoidant, secure) affect our romantic relationships. The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman
Why it's great: Based on decades of research, this is practical and research-backed advice on conflict resolution, communication, and deepening intimacy. Wired for Love by Stan Why it's great: Focuses on how to build a “couple bubble” where both partners feel safe, seen, and supported.
Emotional & Spiritual Connection
How to Love by Thich Hanh Why it's great: A beautifully simple read that explores mindfulness, compassion, and how to show up for each other with presence and peace. Conscious Loving by Gay & Kathlyn Hendricks Why it's great: A transformative read for couples seeking deeper authenticity and emotional freedom.
Fun & Engaging
The Love Prescription by John & Julie Gottman Why it's great: A newer, short and sweet version of their classic work, ideal for couples with limited reading time. Eight Dates by John & Julie Gottman Why it's great: A guidebook with structured dates that tackle key relationship topics—great for building habits of communication Would you prefer something more therapy-based, fun and light, or practical exercises? I can tailor recs based on your vibe.